Saturday, October 3, 2015

Shocking News

To My Loyal Fans,
   I have some rather shocking news to report. Or maybe it's not shocking as much as jarring, or well really just news. And as I am pretty sure all of you have already seen this news on Facebook this will be less news and more a reminder. So really I'm just using this time to repeat things to you that you already know. You're welcome. 

  I have decided to move on from blogger and go to WordPress. I have a new site up and running over there, slowly I am also bringing over  my body of work from blogger. If you would like to continue to support me and follow my journey through life as a bookwork please go here. It's exciting and new and the fun part is rereading my old posts from when I first starting reviewing things. Wanna see how I've grown? See my ups and downs? See when I used to review movies as well as books? Then head over to WordPress follow my new blog and  go through these new old posts. It's a fun and interesting journey I promise. At least I kind of promise. I promise that I think it is anyway and so does my dad. I'm sure that my mom, and best friend find it so too. Which means the coolest people in the world find it interesting so you should too because otherwise we will judge from far away. Only not really because I try not to judge. 

Anyway the site is up and running pretty smoothly and I have a bunch of old posts on there and a few new ones so if you would like to head over and check it out and follow that would be super. I would love you all forever. Blogger was swell for a very long time but now that I am getting serious about taking my reviewing and writing to a new level I needed a more user friendly space and blogger wasn't playing nice. At least with me. And when friends stop playing well together it is time to move on and remember the good times when things were shiny and new. This is a friendly breakup, I just feel that WordPress is going to be the place for me. I know a lot of people make here on blogger and are wildly successful but it just wasn't meshing with me. So it is time to move on. In a loving way with lots of fond memories that I am slowly stealing and bringing with me to my shiny new toy. Wanna come join us? Please do. 

Thanks for the memories blogger and for all of you who have stuck with me here for so many years. Here is to many more years on WordPress. 

With love and happy reading thoughts,
    The Girl in the Tiny Hat

P.S. The actual web address is www.thegirlinthetinyhat.wordpress.com. That way you can see it and click on the link embedded above or just copy and paste this or share this with your friends or favorite pet. Either way we now have it all ways. Which means we all win. 

Sunday, August 9, 2015

The Joy Luck Club-Amy Tan

Title: The Joy Luck Club
Author: Amy Tan
Version: Paperback
How I Heard About It: It's just one of those books that everyone reads and loves and is on every list of 'best books, what to read, top ten..' and so I decided it was time. 

Let's start off by saying firstly that this is not a novel, not really. It is a bunch of vignettes about different Chinese women living in America all squished together and rearranged so that none of it is cohesive, or organized or anything that might resemble a novel. It is about these Chinese mothers that came to America to make better lives for their families and they formed a club that met every week to play mahjong and gossip and have a grand time counting their blessings. Well at least that's what it says it is about. What it's really about are the bratty daughters that came from these women who don't appreciate their mothers, or their culture or their traditions. They are spoiled and horrible and spit on every warning or premonition or offering of luck that their mothers give them. 

These American born women grow up with very traditional Chinese mothers, mothers who risked their lives and at times their happiness to bring them to a safer country then China was at that time. All they ever ask in return is that their daughters love and respect them and take to heart their traditions, which is apparently too much for these daughters to do. There is Waverly Jong who was a child chess prodigy and her mother was so proud to have a genius daughter that she would tell all those she met of her famous chess playing daughter. One day after winning a tournament Waverly and her mother are walking in the market and her mother is telling all the grocers about her smart daughter and Waverly decides she is embarrassed by her mother's boasting yells at her and runs away. 

Jing-Mei Woo's mother tried to instill in her the belief that she could be anything she wanted. So trying to push her to become a child prodigy in something Jing-Mei's mother took her to dance class and made her study history and science until Jing-Mei decided she wanted none of this and stopped trying. When her mother discovered an old piano teacher lived in their building and then saw a young Chinese girl on TV playing the piano Suyuan decided her daughter could do just as well and signed her up for lessons. Of course being stubborn Jing-Mei did the very least that she could and when she realized that her teacher was deaf she basically just went through the motions. Suyuan believing the best of her daughter signed her up for a talent show knowing her daughter would make her proud. When the show came and Jing-Mei hadn't practiced she made a complete fool of herself up on the stage missing notes, playing wrong note after wrong note. She was so bad that she brought shame on her whole family and got nothing but pity from the audience. Her solution to this? Ignore her mother, blame her and start living a life of doing the absolute least she could do. 

These are just a couple small examples of the horridness that were these daughters. All four daughters described in the story were just like this growing up. Stubborn, willful, angry at their mothers for wanting them to take pride in their Chinese heritage. In short they are absolutely awful people. 

I know that there are mothers out there that can be truly terrible people, they hit their kids or worse, the so-called stage moms that try to force their kids into being something they could never be. There are moms that drink and do drugs and moms that leave their kids for no reason and even moms that kill their kids. I know this, I know that their are some women that just should never be moms. I would understand the anger and resentment of those kids, kids that survived a childhood like that. But the women that Amy Tan writes about are kind, and loving, and sacrificing for their daughters. They want only the absolute best for them, the best food, the best education, the best husbands. They want their daughters to understand love and luck and Chinese living and to grow with that knowledge. And their daughters treat them like they are monsters, very few of them even know any form of Chinese. It's one disrespectful act after another towards their moms and it made me want to throw the book out of a moving train. 

Yes I know very little about Chinese history or culture but Amy Tan was not writing that. What she was writing was about the relationships of mothers and daughters. And this I know. As a daughter I know it and even though my mom and I haven't always seen eye to eye in life I have never spit on her way of life or thinking or the traditions she has tried to pass down. Nor would I ever. There is a vast difference between disagreeing with someone and blatantly disrespecting them. The daughters of the Joy Luck Club, Waverly, Jing-Mei, Rose Hsu and Lena spend most of their time intentionally misunderstanding their mothers and what they are trying to accomplish. 

Waverly who was once a chess wizard decided she didn't like the way her mother was taking pride in her and quit chess forever, and now is a tax attorney with one failed marriage and and American fiancee who refuses to even try to get along with her family. Lena works in her husband's agency coming up with spectacular design ideas for innovative restaurants that he eventually takes credit for. He walks all over her and she lets him, and when her mother tries to help give her some spirit Lena dismisses it as silly. Rose who was married and now in the middle of a divorce and feels as if her whole world has come undone. She goes to her mother for comfort and her mother tries to comfort her in the only way she knows how, by sharing the story of her terrible childhood but showing her that in the end it was all for the best. Rose dismisses this as stupid and ridiculous and still whines about how terrible it all is for her. Jing-Mei always blamed her mother for making her want to be average, never let herself try to be anything other than just there. When her mother dies and Jing-Mei is faced with finding her lost twin sisters and finally wanting to know more about her mother she realizes 'oops I guess it's too late now.'

I felt that this was an awful book. The daughter characters are terrible, selfish human beings. They are the worst type of Americans, perhaps this says something about Ms. Tan's views? I have read one other book by Amy Tan and didn't like that one all that much either. There is nothing in her writing or storytelling that blows me away or in anyway makes up for the terrible characters she has depicted. In my opinion, and I know that this will be very much in the minority, this book is not worth the paper it was printed on. The praise and acclaim that this books has garnered is absolutely a mystery to me. There is nothing mind blowing or innovative about it. If it had been a book simply about these brave mothers then I think it could have been something great. Because their stories touched my heart. But Ms. Tan decided instead to shine a spotlight on the daughters and how flat out mean they were to these women that raised them and loved them. It makes my skin crawl thinking about it. 

I do not under any circumstances recommend this book to anyone. It is not a testament to anything, or a beautiful struggle between two different generations. It is simply one generation spitting on anything the older generation tries to share. I cannot describe fully how angry this book made me. I get too worked up just thinking about it. So I shall leave you with this warning, don't read it, don't buy into this 'top-ten books to read of all time' hype that surrounds it. After this I will never try another Amy Tan novel again, she has just made me loose all faith in her ability as an author. If I ever decide to read more about China or Chinese stories or novels about the Chinese I will look elsewhere. All I can do now is keep reading, book after book to get the sourness of this atrocity out of my mind. 


Thursday, July 23, 2015

The Books of Harper Lee

[Editor's Note: This review contains spoilers. Please do not read on if you have plans to read the novel Go Set a Watchman. I aim only to entertain and give my opinion of things and never to ruin.] 

"For thus hath the Lord said unto me, Go, set a watchman, let him declare what he seeth." Isaiah 21:6

Most people know the book To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee, it has become a staple of English classes around the country. It has been talked about and debated, turned into an award winning film loved and hated for many, many years. Harper Lee has become one of my favorite authors, even though she only ever had the one book. Or so I thought. 

Months ago a snippet of a rumor started going around about Ms. Lee and how there was a second book about to be released. The very thought of this made me giddy. I think that Harper Lee is brilliant in her writing and her character development so the idea that she was once more gracing us with that skill was almost too good to be true. In fact for a long time there was debate about whether it was indeed true or not. When it was confirmed that Go Set a Watchman by Harper Lee would be released on July 14, 2015 I knew that this would be one of the rare times I would be buying a hardback new book. To get prepared for this new book, which was maybe sequel and maybe a prequel and also perhaps a first draft, I decided to reread To Kill a Mockingbird once more, I finished it the Monday before Watchman was released. I walked into Barnes and Noble that Tuesday, picked up Go Set a Watchman off the best seller wall and purchased it for 30% off. I started reading it that day.

I found myself slipping easily into the world of an older Scout, who is now Jean Louise. It was almost strange to see Jean Louise as an older woman with fully grown up thoughts and feelings but it was also a nice surprise. We first meet Jean Louise who is on her way home for her yearly visit. When she pulls into the Maycomb Junction station her long time at home boyfriend Hank is waiting for her. On  the drive home Hank and Jean Louise go back and forth about when she is going to marry him and move back home. Right away it's obvious that this is a conversation they have been having for years. When they arrive at the Finch house Jean Louise's father, our beloved Atticus, and her Aunt Alexandra are waiting for them. At first all things seem exactly like home. Alexandra is giving Jean Louise a hard time about her outfit, her life choices and how important it is to stand up to the name of Finch. Atticus, suffering greatly from arthritis, is silently supporting Jean Louise and her wild independence while vocally agreeing with his sister. All seems well in the world of Jean Louise. At least at first.

After a wild first couple of days things begin to take a turn for the darker. When Hank and Atticus leave for a city council meeting Jean Louise decides to see what exactly this city council is. She sneaks in to the old courthouse and witnesses a city council meeting that changes her life. She sees a man named Grady O'Hanlon start preaching about how great segregation is and how important it is to keep the Negroes in their place. Jean Louise can hardly believe her ears she who has grown up in a house of inclusion and love can hardly breathe watching her father and Hank sit there and listen to this man spew his poison. Jean Louise stumbles out of the courthouse lost and disoriented and stumbles to her old house for a little bit of comfort. Lost in her thoughts of betrayal she takes a trip down memory lane trying to find where the lies began. And trying to discover if her whole childhood had been a lie. 

What follows is a dark journey through discovery and the peeling back of layers of what life in the south is really like. Through memories of her childhood and the things she is living through now Jean Louise finds herself questioning everything that she once took for granted. It's a harrowing journey that ultimately ends up with Jean Louise finally confronting Atticus and asking him, was it all a lie? 

To Kill a Mockingbird is an iconic book, and an iconic movie. The young vibrant view that Scout, as our narrator, brings to the world of the south. In the book Atticus is her hero and quickly becomes ours. It's a beautiful book that gives us faith and makes us feel good about all things. Go Set a Watchman is much darker and much more about the truth of things. For me this darkness and the new view of Atticus didn't ruin the memory of the Atticus I grew up knowing. This new book very much felt to me like a first draft or a first attempt at a book. There were a lot of similarities between the two books including some lines that were almost exactly the same. But there were a lot of discrepancies as well, Hank for instance is supposed to have been a long time childhood friend and he was never seen in the 'first' book. 

I think that Harper Lee is brilliant in her writing, that's just what it is. She has a narrative voice that is astounding and a way to develop her characters that is unsurpassed. Reading Go Set a Watchman gave me a chance to experience that once more. For this I am very grateful but it was not a knock-your-socks off type of book. I have seen a couple of very scathing reviews about this book and I wholeheartedly disagree with what they have said. I don't look at this book as a sequel or prequel or anything like that so nothing from To Kill a Mockingbird has been ruined for me. For me reading Go Set a Watchman  is like seeing into the mind of Harper Lee and watching her work out who she wants her characters to be and what she wants to say. It is an interesting look at the way the minds of white people in the deep south thought during the sixties. All in all it was an interesting study in human nature. 

I enjoyed the book and thought it was well executed and I give it a strong three out of five tips of my hat. It is worth reading as a study of the way Ms. Harper Lee thinks and plots and plans. If you can separate the books as two different stories then I think this could be a good recommendation for you. But if you are worried that this could taint your memory of a great book then I heartily say stay away. As a reader I enjoy looking at the different sides of things so for me this was worth the read. And I sincerely hope that the press around Go Set a Watchman will bring people around to the brilliance of Harper Lee. I know that for me this new book has just reminded me of how amazing she really is. An intense read and one that may shock you in parts but something that is worth it if you can see it objectively. I say thank you Harper Lee for a trip into your mind once more. 

Saturday, July 11, 2015

"It Begins with Absence and Desire. It Begins with Blood and Fear. It Begins with a Discovery of Witches."-Deborah Harkness

It was almost exactly three years ago that I first came across a book called A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness. I was working at Barnes and Noble at the time and we used to have to do this thing during peak hours when the booksellers had to wander around the floor, asking customers if they needed help and then try to con them into buying a membership. It was during one of these times when I was wandering aimlessly, because peak hours were rather slow, and looking over the display tables when I happened to glance this book that intrigued me. Turning it over I read the back and as soon as I discovered that it revolved not only around a strong and stubborn woman but a book I was hooked. When it comes to books about books I'm a pretty easy sell so I decided to go ahead and buy it. It was such an unassuming book, and the title suggested maybe a little bit of a silly story maybe so I wasn't expecting much. The old saying 'never judge a book by it's cover' couldn't have been more right on.

As soon as I started reading I was taken into this world of books, and history, magic and love. It was all intricately woven together with different characters and personalities. It all started with Diana Bishop, Yale University professor on sabbatical at Oxford doing research into the history of alchemy. She is well read, history nut, tea enthusiast, a woman who loves a good row in her boat and who happens to be a witch. The witchy side is something that she has been hiding for as long as she can remember all she wants to do is do her research and teach her students. While at the Bodleian Library one day she calls up a mysterious alchemical text called Ashemole 782. All of a sudden she becomes the center of some very unwanted attention, from other witches (some creepy sinister seeming ones), demons (erratic and scatterbrained though they may be) and vampires. One vampire in particular seems to be annoyingly interested in Diana, a tall gorgeous rather overprotective vampire named Matthew. Despite being unsure of just what she has done to elicit such attention from the creatures of the world Diana finds it hard to resist Matthew's charming desire to protect her. In a non-creepy stalker kind of way, but in a way that she learns to find charming as well as annoying (she is a modern independent woman after all). 

I fell in love with the story, with the characters and all their stories and I fell in love with Deborah Harkness' writing. I was stunned to discover that this was her debut novel because her writing was so intricate and perfected in a way. I rarely see that in debut novels and so it was hard for me to wrap my head around that. But I liked her even more for it because I knew that she was going to be a force in the writing world and I eagerly awaited the next book. When the second book The Shadow of Night came out I was thankfully still working and Barnes and Noble and so was fortunate enough to be able to borrow the hardback book right away. I read it while in the middle of a move from Brooklyn to Harlem but it was so great that even despite that extra work I finished it long before the two week rental period was up. Again I was swept into the incredible magical world that Ms. Harkness created with Diana, Matthew and all the other amazing characters that come along in the story. I fear giving a description of this second book because I have no wish to accidentally give something away so I'll just say this, the second book was just as thrilling and amazing as the first and set me on the edge of my seat until the third one came out. 

It took awhile for book three, The Book of Life, to come out. And let me tell you it was a long wait. When I found out it was finally coming out I did something that is very rare for me and went online to pre-order a signed hard backed copy of it. Why is this so strange? I usually like to buy soft cover books (more portable), and I enjoy keeping trilogies and series in the same style so paperback series stay paperback etc. But I knew this was going to be a great book and it was one I didn't want to wait to read so I went ahead and did it. Due to quiet a lot of upheavals in my life around the time it was released it took me over a year to get to the book. But one night I decided it was time to read it because I was looking for a magical mystery that is intelligently and creatively written so I knew it was time to turn back to the world of Ms. Harkness' imagination. The Book of Life was even better than I thought it was going to be. 

In my new job at Starbucks I have rather strange hours, what do I mean? Well I have to be at work and clocked in at 4:30am most mornings which means my travel time is around 3am or so. Usually I am much to tired to read, my brain is still struggling to figure why I am awake and trying to function at that hour so reading on the way to work has become a non option. But this book was so good that it made me want to read on my way to work, and at work, and on my way home and at home and everywhere in between. I was so caught up in every aspect of the book and the story that I lost track of time a couple of times while reading. I got wrapped up in everything happening to Diana and Matthew that I would forget for a moment that this is only a trilogy and start finding myself unable to wait of the next book. Imagine my disappointment each time I was brought back to reality. 

The Book of Life is a whole other level of greatness from the other two. I loved them all equally, in fact the entire series has moved into my top trilogies of all time, but the third installment kept me on the edge of my seat unsure of how she was going to wrap things up  and I loved every thrilling second of it. This is a series of books that I highly, highly recommend to everyone! Don't let the title of the first book throw you or scare you away from it because the book is so good. So well written, so well put together that you will be hooked right away. Please if you love fantasy or good stories about books then go out and get a copy because you will not be sorry you did. The description doesn't even do it justice so you have to trust me when I say it is a world that you will want to fall into because it is a world that is worth losing yourself in. 

Sunday, June 21, 2015

The Whores of Lost Atlantis-Charles Busch

Let me the first to admit that there have been times that I have indeed judged a book by its cover. Don't shake your head like that, I know you have all done it once or twice as well. With this delightful novel it was the cover and the title that really caught my while book shopping one fine day. I was browsing the $1 book section at a delightful little used bookstore in midtown Manhattan. A favorite past time of mine to be sure but with this particular run I was feeling less than enthusiastic. The selection seemed to be thin, and I just wasn't finding what I was looking for nor anything that I wasn't looking for. Until I came across something called Whores of Lost Atlantis by Charles Busch. I saw the title first and then pulled it off the shelf and saw the cover. At first I was just going to take a picture and send it to a friend who I thought would appreciate it as much as I did. But then I read what it was about and I got hooked. 

Let me give a little background, I have recently become kind of obsessed with drag queens and the whole drag world. Blame it on a truly great film 'To Wong Fu Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar' Starring, John Leguziamo, Wesley Snipes and of course Patrick Swayze all as utterly fabulous drag queens. With a very special appearance by none other than RuPaul. Who is one of the most fabulous people in the world in my opinion. Anyway I saw it again a few months ago and just decided the hour plus was not enough to fulfill my drag queen craving. And so my roommate and I decided to venture into RuPaul's Drag Race. We were instantly in love. We have been faithful fans ever since. In fact we just finished the latest season and we are currently in withdrawal. 

With the love and utter fascination I have for drag queens these days I am obviously on the lookout for anything related. With that in mind (and a rather strange sense of humor) I went book browsing at one of my favorite used bookstores. I came across a title in the $1 book section called Whores of Lost Atlantis and the title alone intrigued me so I pulled it off the shelf. When I saw the cover of a man in drag I got even more excited and so opened it up to read the synopsis. And when I read what it was about, an actor living in New York trying desperately to make his career finally take off by taking a bunch of his actor friends and doing a play where he plays a woman, I was hooked and knew that it was the book for me. And I was correct. 

A semi-autobiographical novel about a young man named Julian, an actor who until recently has spent most of his time traveling around   doing his one man show to great applause. Now he is yet another out of work actor going from temp job to temp job trying to make rent. He has a tight knit group of very loyal, very kind friends (most of whom are also out of work actors) all of whom are very convinced of their own brilliance and just need a way to show the world. When he meets a rather stuck up, annoying performance artist and is invited to her show at a tiny theater on the Lower East Side called the Golgotha he becomes overwhelmed with a certain knowledge. He suddenly knows that this is what he has to be doing, independent off the wall wonderful theater in a place like Golgotha. He gathers together his group of friends and during one day at a temp job writes the script for 'Whores of Lost Atlantis,' a play that is sexy, well put together and most importantly has him in the starring role as Milena the whore who has been dragged to Atlantis as a slave and then plots to overthrow the kingdom and rule. 

Along the way he meets some interesting characters that are inexplicably drawn into his world, finds himself beginning to find a certain type of fame and slowly finding his dreams coming true. With the ups and downs of popularity Julian finds himself wondering who he is, what is real and what is the act and if he makes a better Judy Garland or Sarah Bernhardt? It's quite a ride especially when you bring into it a love triangle, a mysteriously sexy man that takes over Julian's world, a vengeful rival who makes it her mission to ruin Julian and his band of players. I loved every minute of it. 

The author Charles Busch is a playwright and he has a unique voice for fiction writing. He is hilarious, every page, every chapter, every mishap had me laughing out loud. He also brought into it the harrowing truth of men watching their friends and lovers die of AIDS and what it was like to try and survive those losses. It was put together very well the story flowed and all I wanted was to find out what happened next. I always enjoy finding new authors with unique voices and Charles Busch was a truly great surprise. 

The story was wonderful and kept things interesting. Being in love with New York and theater, the fact that this all took place right at the beginning of the art scene on the Lower East Side was really exciting for me. Watching it unfold from the inside was delightful and left me wanting more knowledge. It was a fascinating tale that had me reaching for the book whenever I had the time. And the characters, where to start with them?! They were all hilarious and awesome and three dimensional. I felt like with anyone of them, Julian, his magician friend, the hard ass woman who does his wigs or the slightly off his rocker male stripper, I could be great friends and have strange and sometimes dark adventures. The characters made the book, the story was great, the writing was good, but these characters were the whip cream on top (I don't like cherries very much so the whip cream is the top). It's hard to describe them but they are characters that you don't want to miss. 

This book is hilarious and weird and fun and full of characters that I couldn't get enough of. It is a book that will probably not appeal to many people I know that but I still have to recommend it because I loved it. And what better way to show my love for a book then to try and spread it around to all my faithful readers. Whores of Lost Atlantis by Charles Busch has become one of those books, you know? One of those books that I loved and will always remember fondly but I probably won't go back to simply because the magic of that first read is just too good. But with that said I highly recommend it for anyone looking for a magical first read of a great and rather strange book. But I find that there are times when strange and funny are just what the doctor ordered. So my friends happy reading. 

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

A Quick Note

My darling readers,

I apologize that it has been so long since I have been seen. But this time I have a truly great excuse I have had no computer with which to write down my words of wisdom. Yes it's true my dear tablet has finally gone the way of the Dinosaurs and blacked out. It took quite awhile for me to finally get to a point where I could justify buying a new computer. But my plan is to start going back to school in the fall (as long as I get accepted that is) and since it is going to be online I needed a computer. So here we are at last. A new laptop computer that will hopefully be all that I hoped for. So far so good seeing as it turned on. 

Now just because I was unable to post updates or review anything doesn't mean I haven't been reading. Slightly slower than normal, I seem to have hit a reading rut and been less than enthusiastic about my books, but still reading. What have I been reading? Well I've really been running the gambit in genres lately. Finished up the Percy Jackson and the Olympians series by Rick Riordan and it was awesome! Highly recommend it for anyone, again I say anyone that enjoys Greek mythology. Been reading some of Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events which is amazing and each book short and so good that I have been devouring one a day like vitamins. I read a historical fiction book called The Light in the Ruins by Chris Bohjalian, a mystery about violent murders happening in Italy, a murderer that is taking out an entire family one member at a time. Each chapter is different, one takes place in the present following the detectives investigating the murders, the next taking us back in time to World War 2 and a forbidden love and the next looking at everything from the POV of the killer. It was good, not great but the author did a fantastic job taking us into the mind of the killer. I read Snuff by Chuck Palahniuk a book about an aging porn star attempting to break the world record of sleeping with more than 599 men in one day. I finally read Maya Angelou's first installment in her autobiography entitled I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, haunting and beautiful and incredibly well written I fell in love with Miss Maya Angelou and can't wait to read more. 

There have been a few more since my last post about Rory Gilmore but a couple of them I want to actually review so I'll leave them for now. Currently I am in the middle of reading a couple of books one psychological study called When Rabbit Howls by Truddi Chase about her struggle with her 92 different multiple personalities that all stem from the horrific sexual abuse she endured as a child. And to lighten the mood when that becomes too much I am reading Whores of Lost Atlantis by Charles Busch, a semi autobiographical novel about an actor down on his luck and not really sure how to jump start his career. When he gets together with some of his acting buddies who are also unable to keep steady acting work and puts on a play at an East Village underground club, where he is the leading lady, things begin to turn around for him. So far it's hilarious and awesome in so many different ways. It's well written and endlessly entertaining so I already know I want to recommend it. 

There you have it my dears, a full if not quite complete list of the things that I have been reading in my time away from you. I feel like it was a little bit of everything, but I may be thinking I'm much bigger than my briches. I hope that now that I have a fully equipped and working computer I will be more inclined to post lots more reviews. For the moment I am going to bid you all aideu and go read some more and then go to bed. With my new work schedule I have to be up at 3am so getting to bed at an early hour is the only way I get any sleep. I will be putting my application for school in tomorrow so think accepting thoughts for me! 

Missing You Already,

The Girl in the Tiny Hat

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Why I'll Never Be As Well Read As Rory Gilmore

Let me start off by saying that yes I do know that Rory Gilmore is a fictional character and that she didn't actually read all the books that she said did. However knowing all of this has not stopped Rory Gilmore from becoming one of the most beloved reading icons of our time. There are lists on goodreads.com that are dedicated to her books and reading challenges that ask the question 'can you read as many books as Rory Gilmore?' Book nerds all over the place have taken the test on www.listchallenges.com that has a list of 339 books that were mentioned through out the entire 'Gilmore Girls' series and asks 'how many have you read?' I've only read 67 of the 339 books listed which according to the site puts me in the top 25% of challenge takers. For a goodreads list of Gilmore Girls titles go here.

Taking into account that fictional characters have often become ideals for us I set my sites on Rory Gilmore as a reading icon. Basically I hope to be just like her when I grow up. In the sense that she reads everything. I pride myself on being an eclectic reader, I'm not sure if I am one but I certainly like to think of myself as one. But even so I'm sure that I could branch out even further into unknown reading waters and every time I rewatch the 'Gilmore Girls' series I am reminded that there is still so much more for me to read.

Rory doesn't discriminate when it comes to reading, Dorothy Parker, Sylvia Plath, Jane Austen, Tolstoy, books about beatniks in Venice beach, history, fiction, philosophy, she reads it all because she loves the act of reading and retaining knowledge. She reads newspapers daily and not just the Stars Hollow Gazette but papers like the New York Times, and the Wall Street Journal, she knows what is happening in the world. I admire her for this non-discrimination in her reading, I know that I have some discriminations, as do we all, when it comes to reading. Most of us, no matter how book nerdy we are, stick to one genre or sub-genre. Young adult, mystery, romance, paranormal romance, fiction, 'chick-lit,' teen, we can't help ourselves we find an author or genre or series that we can't put down and we get stuck. It's usually very hard for us to break out of our molds and venture into uncharted territories. I try to force myself now and again to try something new or pick up something that someone has suggested to me that I feel isn't really my style. But I know no reader that is as voracious and widely read as Rory Gilmore.

The reason I could never be as well read as Miss Gilmore is simple, I never read the newspaper, and quite a few of the books she has read are ones that I will never pick up. According to www.listchallenges.com one of the many books that were mentioned in the series was 'Middlesex' by Jeffrey Eugenides now I tried three times to read this book and was unsuccessful each time. I just couldn't get into it no matter what, the same with 'The Kite Runner' by Khaled Hosseini I tried and tried but just couldn't get through it. Rory never puts a books down, she tries everything once and moves on to the next. I can't do that, if a book doesn't grab me or the writing is awful or the story so stupid that I just can't get into I have to put it down. Not to say that either of those books are poorly written and I know for a fact that they are both extremely popular books but they weren't my cup of tea.

Rory Gilmore is an inspiration to me, an inspiration to read things that have never tried before, an inspiration to try movies and music that I have never heard of before. I hope one day to be almost as well and widely read as her but I never will be because I know myself and I have limitations on my reading. No matter how hard I try to break out of my molds, one day reading Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's Sherlock Holmes mysteries and the next Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate events and then the next 'Snuff' by Chuck Palahniuk, I just know that I won't be able to pick up 'Beowulf' or 'The Art of War' and sit down and read them cover to cover. I know they are important books and to be fully well read these are ones to read but they aren't books that I will read. I know this about myself and fully except my limitations as a reader.

Reading is about the pleasure of entering a new world, meeting new people, learning something new. If a book isn't bringing pleasure to the reader then the reader has every right to put the book down and start something new. I am very adamant about enjoying what I read so if a book and I aren't getting along then I will graciously put it aside, thank it for its time and move on. Rory Gilmore is a true reading fanatic and will never say no to a book or a subject which is why she has been an icon for book lovers every where. This is why I could never be as well read as Rory Gilmore, I have my few discrimintations. But I intend to keep on trying.